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All right. As someone who was also at SPWF, I would like to say that Michael was not drunk the entire time. He probably was intoxicated during some of it, that’s true, but he knows his limits.
I spoke to him a lot at this event, and the only time I remember meeting him and thinking he was drunk was at night after all festivities had ended. I know Michael, I’ve been with him when he’s intoxicated and sober, and he doesn’t change that much. Really, he only becomes a bit more goofy and affectionate. He is able to keep his head and have well thought out conversations, and the fact that he likes to enjoy alcohol every now and then should not be held against him. He shouldn’t have to conduct himself in a way that fans feel is best. The reason? People have different moral compasses. For me, the fact that he enjoyed what was offered at the con is completely fine. I have nothing against alcohol, or anything like it, as long as you don’t hurt someone else. So, if he went by me, what he did was perfectly all right. Another person might be very against it and be offended if someone partakes in these activities. If he went by them, what he did was wrong. But who’s to say that that person should be catered to, rather than I? In reality, neither of us have the right to conduct someone and what they do. And that’s just how things are going to roll. He didn’t hurt anyone, and never has. Michael is very aware of what’s going on around him at all times, I assure you.
Liv. You are my friend. At least, i consider you to be one. I know, and you know, your comments on that status of his were more jabbing at him than ‘concerning the matter.’ I agree that he worded it poorly, but the right thing to do would have been to message him privately and ask him to clarify.
I don’t believe you handled yourself in the right way, and that wasn’t the right status to go making a scene on. It was right of him to delete the comments, because the bottom line is if you to let yourfeelings be known about someone, you should let them know directly. You’re a good person. I know that. I’ve had conversations with you, you’re a kind girl. But when you put something like this out in the open, people are going to have their opinions. But there are two sides to every story, and for you, the other side is Michael. If you haven’t heard how he feels about it, I sincerely hope you don’t judge him. If I judged someone by what other people said and didn’t ask them directly, I wouldn’t have many of the friends I do now.
Now, please. Friends, everyone who’s commented on this topic. Remember. Maliciousness gets you nowhere. Being smart, informative, logical. That’s what people listen to. If you piss someone off from the get-go, they’re not going to care for what you have to say.
I really hope I didn’t make anyone mad with this, and I’m sorry if I offended someone.
Have a good night, all.